Girls aren't going to talk to you first. It's a girl thing. We don't like starting the conversation because we like to feel like you want to talk to us. We like to feel like the wait was worth something. We like feeling like you've waited for us like we've waited for you. But the number one reason we hate talking first is because we hate to seem clingy and needy. Thats why we're scared. Cause to us, being needy and obsessive just pushes guys away. And no girl wants that.